Methods to disagree with employer without losing your job
Few situations will arise in job where you have to talk against the decisions of your boss and at the same time you have to take care of your job also. For example if you are presenting a brilliant idea in an official meeting and your boss disagree with it. That time you have to give more stress to your points and have to make argument with the boss.
There are many techniques which you can use in such situations to maintain both job and boss and also to stick to our opinions.
First thing is we must be aware of the recognition of our words. According to Emily Bennington who is a co author of “effective immediately”, the solution of a problem is purely depends on our dialogue. If we use better dialogues to present our ideas it will work out in a good manner as per our expectation.
Your ideas must be useful for the boss
If you talk to your boss about each and every small issue it will create negative image about you in his mind. So better to talk only necessary matters which are useful for the boss. Also try to solve the issues with colleagues without informing to boss.
It is a nice suggestion given by Bennington that you have to tell your boss about the mistakes you made which will create problems in the organization or the business dealings with the client. This will help to solve the problem before it will create a big fire. Also this will create a good impression in your boss about you.
Talking issues personally
In case of any issues or any opinion which you cannot agree with boss it is a nice choice to talk to him personally. If you raise such issues in a meeting and talk against your boss it will be like insulting him. So always ask for an appointment with the boss in a private place to solve those problems by face to face discussion.
Start the talk with positive attitude
Always start a talk with positive attitude and discuss all matters clearly without creating any problems. If your boss is disagreed with your ideas never argue with him. Just stop talking for a while and think well about the matter you are discussing and also confirm that your side is correct and useful for the boss. This will help to keep a good relation with the boss.